What are the rules of anti-racism? Well, in mainstream anti-racism, you’re going to learn a series of “do’s and dont’s that you believe is your pathway towards being a white ally. The problem, though, is that these do’s and dont’s actually prevent you from holding space for your feelings which is intrinsically connected to your racist behaviors. That’s right, I said it: behaviors. You see, racism is fundamentally, a type of narcissistic behavior.
Are you a white person who wants to learn how to break the rules of antiracism in order to show up authentically in your interracial relationships?
In my workshops, I teach white people how to understand how a history of their own personal trauma gets projected onto people of color in the form of racism. In order to do this, I developed a psychological theory called The Racist Signature Theory.